Sunday

The Bigger 'Yes'

“To allow oneself to be carried away by a multitude of conflicting concerns, to surrender to too many demands, to commit oneself to too many projects, to want to help everyone in everything is to succumb to violence.  The frenzy of the activist neutralizes his or her work for peace.” – Thomas Merton


Every time I read this piece, I am humbled.  I am aware that even though I am blessed with Divine Grace, I only have two hands and one heart.  I am human and I can only do what I can do, and that’s enough.  I have often been caught in the trap of not wanting to say no.  I truly like to help.  I like how it makes you feel, and I like how it makes me feel.  I still need to be careful of those times when I say yes for your approval.  That is not healthy for me.  Sometimes saying NO is the greatest act of love.


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