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Sunday
Some things I've learned...
Growing and changing
I believe every experience is an opportunity for learning. If something did not work out the way we wanted, it is not a failure, it is an opportunity to learn. The mistakes we make in life are opportunities to assess and choose differently next time.
We are constantly growing and changing. Becoming fuller and healthier with each new choice. Our self awareness and self management grow with each new decision. Our world view expands with each new relationship. Our wisdom expands from birth to old age. Even our greatest pains are essential in our life learning. Through all my physical challenges (spinal injury, heart surgery) I have learned to ask for help. Through the experience of our daughter’s passing, I have learned that unconditional love has no boundaries and goes on forever. I have learned the grace of God is with us always.
Do not waste precious time berating yourself. Self punishment leads to stagnation and illness.
Reflect on each day. Be grateful. Commit to your chosen path with passion. Learn and act.
A precious gift
There is a precious gift in each of us. In reflection, take time to be aware of the source of our ancestry. Become aware of our innate spirit. Become aware that integrity and love is our pathway home.
Education and selfless service to human kind will enable the healing of all. From this learning and service, we will all live more beautiful, fulfilled, joyful, and loving lives.
We are meant to fully realize the spirit within us. We are meant to enjoy our humanity.
May we all feel the Divinity within.
The Good
Good thoughts, good feelings, good actions. All for the greater good of all humanity. This is where we need to focus our energy.
As we focus on positivity and good for everyone, the good increases and we all improve. Every new growth opportunity creates a new vision and every new vision leads to a greater and greater new creation. Progress is eternal and we are unlimited.
There is no limit to the potential of the universe and we are part of this limitless universe. Every day is a new beginning. Every day we can make fresh and new.
Let us use the skills and discipline of meditation, contemplation, positive thought and positive action to create the peaceful and loving world we need.
You can do hard things
Diversity within Unity
Let us give our energy to unity, wholeness, and love.
All life is connected. We are all emanations of the Divine universal love. In this core belief, let us assess and examine our behaviors, relationships, goals, and actions through the lens of unity.
This is the reality of life. The exquisite paradox of diversity within unity. All life is difficult. We are all different and connected. It is only by striving for unity that we will survive. Let us meet the separation and pain of this life with the commitment to give our energy to unity and wholeness.
Let us trust in the spirit of unconditional love that is within all of us.
Educators
“Do not neglect the gift that is you.” 2 Timothy 4:11
Educators are people of great faith. Educators believe in the ability and potential of their students. Educators see what is possible. Educators are possibly the ones who teach their students to think. They do not teach them what to think, they teach them to think.
Every time we teach someone to think, we liberate them from the prison of indecision. Teaching someone to think brings them the freedom to make their own decisions.
Trusting educators teach students to think.
Educators have so much faith, they teach us to think.
Thank you.
Holding the hand
There is a particle of the Divine in each of us. There is an essence in us, that is a mystery that has its home in God. When we have completed our commitment here on earth, we return to our home in God.
It has been a privilege to share the blessings of this life with each of you. We have spoken together, we have walked together, we have cried together, and we have laughed together. Our memories are full of love.
So let us see each other through the eyes of serenity. Let us know that those we walk through this life with are holding the hands of God.
Build Bridges
Building bridges has been one of the sacred commitments of my life. Bridges unite us, bridges connect us, bridges bring us options and choices. We build bridges with our hearts. An open heart with an open mind invites and welcomes, as my faith believes. Our bridges are built with kindness, compassion, empathy, trust, and respect. These are not soft skills. These take a lifetime of commitment and effort. These are the hard-earned skills of character building.
So let us build our bridges of character. Let our character and courage carry us back and forth across the bridge of love.
Transcendence
I recently attended a beautiful classical music concert. The orchestra and choir performed 2 hours of music by Bach. As I was transfixed, I became aware, I wasn’t just seeing singers, violinists, oboe. I was becoming part of the orchestra, part of the music. I was awakened to the reality that my appreciation for the music corresponded to who I am as a person. Through my senses, I was taking in beauty, love, and transformation.
We discover things outside ourselves that in reality are part of who we are. We do not appreciate the music, words, and actions of transcendence unless we join with them. We do not understand the meaning of transcendence unless there is something in us that understands the truth of our essence.
All acts of creativity are a reciprocal transfer of universal energy.
When we are in service
Love, commitment, trust, and integrity are sacred core values in my life.
When we are the best versions of ourselves, we make contributions that make a positive impact on the world. When we see our sisters and brothers through the eyes of love, we close the gaps of perspective and understanding. As we commit to the time and effort to understand, we heal our hearts. And through miracle of empathy, we heal the hearts of others. It is then that we see through a friend-like lens and compassion begins to grow.
So let us use ourselves in the service of kindness. Sometimes we know our service has made a positive impact and other times we give our best and yet we are not sure we have hit the mark. Let go of self evaluation and focus on intention. Where our intention is to serve the greater good. That is enough- you are enough.
The best that we offer comes from those places that don’t have names. They are deep, mysterious, and universal. our greatest acts of service come from unconditional love.
I am blessed
The seasons, months, and years change. A peace of heart and mind rests upon my soul. I still remember your perfect little nose, your delicate thin fingers, your deep brown eyes, and the scent of your baby hair.
There remains an atmosphere of love. Your presence still fills my life. We share a knowing, an awareness of unconditional love.
Your essence fills my world. And the pain that once filled your life, is gone. You are now free, part of the universal light and universal love.
I am blessed to be your father.
You
We are here in this life to discover who we really are. We are here to love and be loved, and to have a life that brings us back home to God.
There is a unique role for each of us in this life. The universe would not be the same without you. You are an emanation of Divine, unconditional love. The essence of who you are is this unconditional love. You are here to shine your light and share your unique gifts. You are irreplaceable.
This life is a privilege. When we are our authentic selves, we attract similar experiences. When we express the beauty of who we are, we love others unconditionally. Accept your birthright and reach out to your sisters and brothers in love.
The universal force of unconditional love is calling to you. "You are here to love and be loved. You are a vital force in the Divine plan."
You are a spiritual being having a human experience.













