We all make mistakes.
We have all done something that hurt someone or given our less-than-best
work. This only makes us human. Our mistakes are learning opportunities. They give us a chance to learn, grow, change,
improve, transform. Mistakes do not make
us bad, weak, unworthy, stupid, or less than anyone else.
We have to stop blaming ourselves and others for
mistakes. Blame is judgment. Blame and judgment create suffering. How much do we have to suffer? How much blame is enough? How long do we need to live with blame,
judgment, suffering? How much
self-punishment is enough?
We need to be gentle with ourselves. Deep reflection shows that we have punished
ourselves for being human. We were
naïve, innocent, and lacked information or education. We all did the best we could with what we
knew and who we were in the moment.
We are all, at essence, a whole and perfect emanation of
Divinity. In our humanity, we are on a
journey to rediscover spiritual truth.
We are not Jesus or Buddha. We
have not reached enlightenment. The
consequences of our mistakes help us learn and grow to enlightenment. We become expressions of Divinity. When we make mistakes, we focus on our
oneness with spirit and learn from the mistake.
Take responsibility, apologize, learn, change, grow, and correct the
action. Forgive yourself and others,
acknowledge we are all learning.
